Tiny Tornado or Something More? Let’s Talk ADHD & ODD

We all know that kid. The one who’s always on the move, can’t sit still for more than two seconds, treats instructions like suggestions, and seems to have a PhD in arguing. If that kid is yours first, you’re not alone. Second, let’s talk.

When your child is inattentive, hyperactive, impulsive, defiant, and possibly plotting your downfall during homework time, it’s natural to wonder: “Is this just a phase…….or should I Google something scary?”

Let’s break it down.

ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is not just a fancy excuse for being “too energetic.” It’s a neurodevelopmental condition that affects focus, impulse control, and behavior regulation. Think: forgetting instructions 0.3 seconds after hearing them and climbing furniture like it’s American Ninja Warrior.

Then there’s ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder); This one brings the sass. Children with ODD aren’t just “strong-willed.” We’re talking about chronic anger, spitefulness, and defiance that could rival a courtroom drama. They don’t just say “no”, they say “NO!!” with a full TED Talk attached.

Now here’s the twist: kids can have both conditions. Fun, right?

Before spiraling into guilt or panic (or buying every parenting book in stock), know this you’re not a bad parent, and your child isn’t “broken.” They might just need support, structure, and a mental health professional who can help decode what’s really going on.

At Friendly Psychiatry, we work with families like yours every day. We bring compassion, clarity, and zero judgment even if your kid calls us “mean” during the first session.

Let’s figure it out together. You don’t have to do this alone tantrums and all.